There is a fine line between love and lust. We often fail to spot the difference because the feeling of lust is equally intense if not more. You’re in deep love with your partner but if what you get in return is only physical intimacy you might be wondering if all he wants is sex, not love.
You both enjoy the intimate love making you do, but you might want to be sure that you’re not just being used.
When it comes to getting into a relationship for sex, men are the stereotyped one, but according to researchers, women are equally interested in casual hookups for sex.
It’s no doubt that men are permissive than women when it comes to sex but other than this all scores are the same.
It’s important to know if all that your partner is looking for is sex because, in the end, it is always devastating to find out you were only being used.
Signs your partner wants you for sex, not love
You need to f*ck him even when you’re not in the mood
There are times you don’t feel like having sex and not at all in the mood but you had to because your partner insisted. When you are having sex a lot, more than you want to because your partner insisted is a sign that, all your partner wants from you is sex and not love.
Despite your ‘no’ if your partner goes ahead and haves sex with you, that’s rape despite your marital status. With love comes respect and that follows respecting your consent. The desire for sex is not greater than love and nothing is more important than respect. If he doesn’t respect you, he doesn’t love you, it’s that simple.
Their track records show a lack of commitment.
If your partner has never been able to stay committed for a long time in the past is a sign that he is with you just for sex and not love.
The short-term relationships and walking way rather than getting their own feelings hurt shows lack of commitment. He who gets away easily by using people will continue to do so because when sex comes easy they don’t see the need to pay the price i.e. loyalty.
If they had an only short-term relationship and could never stay committed, it is a sign that he desires only sex from you, not love.
They either talk dirty or don’t talk.
Love is about sharing your feelings and finding solace in each other’s word, but if your partner makes the conversation sexual every time and doesn’t talk if you don’t get along the flow and anticipate the flirting he stops.
It’s clear sign that all he wants is sex, not love. For him, the talks are foreplay and not intimate bonds to bring you closer.
They feel uncomfortable to express their emotions.
Love is about giving your partner everything and everything here includes your insecurities, fears, frustration, anger, sadness too.
If your partner feels uncomfortable to express these emotions in front of you, there is a big problem. The love is missing the magic, maybe it’s not love at all.
It’s very important in a relationship to be emotionally open to your partner if one doesn’t share his emotions with his partner he has probably some other person to do it with, which is a kind of emotional cheating. In a nutshell, if your partner doesn’t express his emotions to you, it is a sign that he want sex from you and not love.
Your partner has always other plans.
You plan a picnic or dinner or a movie with your partner but when you check on him he always has a different plan, maybe a meeting or a plan that doesn’t include you. If they are missing your plans purposely it is a sign that they are interested in only sex, not love.
If your partner misses your birthdays, anniversary, your important shows or achievements, it’s a sign that your love is not deep. If they are only present when they want to, it’s not love and all they want from you is sex.
Your partner wants to be alone with you, always.
Well having some good quality time together is intimate but if your partner doesn’t want to go for a movie or a dinner date or visit to park and just want to be alone with you and be physically intimate, it’s clear sign that all he want’ is sex and not love.
With love comes the desire to make each other smile and walk out there holding hands in hands and being always up for adventure be it a horror movie or a roller coaster ride, if you’re missing this in your life and the only adventure you’re having is in your bed then it’s a sign that your partner wants sex from you and not love.